About Our Company
This Website Was A Long Time Coming.
When I Was In High School I Felt Like An Outcast, Never Felt Good Enough. I Flip-Flopped Between Being Too Fat, Too Thin, Always Worried About What I Looked Like And Why I Didn’t Look Like The Other Girls. From What I Could Tell, Sex Made You Popular- So I Sought It And Found It In The Wrong Places. I Was Taken Advantage Of.
In Keeping The Company I Did, I Found Myself In Abusive Relationships And Humiliating, Dehumanizing Sexual Encounters. I Went To A School Where We Were Taught Abstinence Only Sex Ed, So I Had No Idea How Easy It Was To Get STD’s, Become Pregnant, And All Of The Other Extra’s That Go Along With Irresponsible Sex. I Learned And Many Of The Scars From Those Consequences Will Follow Me For The Rest Of My Life. All Of That And In The End It Didn’t Matter. I Was Still An Outcast.
For A Long Time I Didn’t Think About My Vagina, To Avoid Feeling All Of The Things That You Feel After All Of That. Whenever I Thought Of My Vagina In Any Context, I Got This Sick Feeling In The Pit Of My Stomach. I Felt Dirty, I Felt Useless, I Felt Ashamed And Used, Thrown Away Like A Piece Of Garbage. Death, Sadness And Humiliation All Lingered There. Traditional Counseling Didn’t Work. I Couldn’t Shake The Shame Because Something Had To Change. So I Decided To Restructure. I Took Something I Hated And Turned It Into Art- Art I Thought Was Beautiful. Slowly I Found It Wasn’t The Art That Was Beautiful, It Was Me. I Felt Completely Liberated. When I Started Working As a Mental Health Counselor I Began To Recognize How Effectively Society Tells Us That: We Should Be Ashamed By Our Vulvas, To Be Pretty You Have To Fit One Very Unreachable Standard And To Validate Your Prettiness You Need Men, Even If You’re Not Interested, and worst of all that no matter what you do or look like- it’s not good enough. That Is When I Started Vll.
We’re Here Because So Many Women Use Porn As Their Visual Reference For What Their Bodies Should Look Like And They Let It Determine Their Self-Image. In Porn Women Are Chosen Based On The Shape Of Their Vulvas And Are Bleached, Dyed, Shaved And Surgically Altered. Porn Vulvas Do Not Exist In The Natural World. We’re Using Real Models To Show Women There Is No Standard Vulva, They Are All Different And Perfect As Is. Bleaching Is Not Required.
Artist and Owner
Jessica is the main artist and owner behind VulvaLoveLovely. She is currently a mental health counseling intern at a domestic violence center. She is a dog loving ocean child with the greatest job(s) and the most amazing staff a girl could ask for.
Our Fabulous Creative Assistant
Dana is sugar, spice and everything nice. She is the queen of color and mixes/creates our goddess pieces, she helps whip up pads, ships out orders, helps create new designs and keeps Jessica sane-
Our Whimsical Vulva Fairy
Misty is our magical Vulva fairy. She helps us manage our Etsy account, keeps our facebook running and she keeps our tumblr exciting. And she does it all out of the goodness of her heart- so if you see her give her a hug- she deserves a million
We are sold out of our Red Winged Black Bird pendant <3